| Location | Paisley |
| Age | 34 years |
| Date of Birth | 26/11/1973 |
| Date of Death | 19/03/2008 |
| Visitors | 11,319 since 31/08/2008 |
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Steven sadly and very suddenly passed away on the 19th March 2008. He was my husband and father to
our two children Chloe and Rian who he was very proud of and loved very much. Steven was also a much
loved son, brother, uncle, son in law, brother in law and friend. He touched the hearts of those who
knew him best as he would have done anything for them no matter what. Nothing was ever too much
trouble. He was a brilliant dad and although we had our fair share of ups and downs he was the one
true love of my life.. there will never be anybody in this lifetime i will love the way i loved you
Steven, Till we meet again xx
STEVENS MUSIC...
FIELDS OF ATHENRY- ONE OF HIS FAVOURITES
YOULL NEVER WALK ALONE- A CELTIC FAN TO THE END....
ALL OUT OF LOVE - YOU WROTE ME A LETTER
4 LEAF CLOVER - AGAIN FOREVER A CELTIC FAN WITH FOREVER THE GREEN AND WHITE UPON YOUR CHEST
THE KILLERS-READ MY MIND - JUST BECAUSE YOU PLAYED IT ALL THE TIME
GARY OG - SOMETHING INSIDE SO STRONG..- BECAUSE YOU ARE ONE OF THE STRONGEST BRAVEST PEOPLE I HAD
THE HONOUR OF KNOWING...
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┊　┊　┊　 ♥ Those we love don't go away
┊　┊　♥ They walk beside us every day,
┊　 ♥ Unseen, unheard, but always near,
♥ Still loved, still missed and very dear.
◄███▓▒░░ MY BEAUTIFUL HUSBAND STEVEN ░░▒▓███►
♥♥♥ You will always be in my heart and I look forward to the day we unite, and how glorious
that day will be! I will continue to pray to dream of you always. ♥♥♥
♥♥♥ I love you with every bit of my heart ♥♥♥
"The time came when the pain it took to stay, was greater than the pain it took to go"
♥ღ♥ ♥ღ♥ ♥ღ♥ ♥ღ♥ ♥ღ♥
I'm Free
Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free
I'm following the path God has laid you see.
I took his hand when I heard His call
I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day,
To laugh, to love, to work or play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way.
I found peace at the close of day.
If my parting has left a void
Then fill it with remembered joys.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss,
O yes, these things I too will miss.
Be not burdened with times of sorrow.
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.
My life's been full, I savored much,
Good friends, good times, a loved one's touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief,
Don't lengthen it now with undue grief.
Lift up your hearts and peace to thee,
God wanted me now, He set me free.
♥ღ♥ ♥ღ♥ ♥ღ♥ ♥ღ♥ ♥ღ♥
♥Our Daddy♥
Our daddy is the best daddy in the whole wide world, we loved going out in his car to the seaside
and the park. My daddy always made me feel better when i wasnt feeling well. We will love him and
miss him forever♥
Daddy we are going to grow up and make you so proud of us, I still want to be a vet just like i told
you and Rian says he is going to be a footballer and score lots of goals for you.
Your the brightest star in the sky daddy.
♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~
♥ Time may heal the sadness
Like a smile can hide a tear,
But our memories will not forget
Our daddy we loved so dear.
To us you were so special,
What else is there to say?
Except to wish with all our hearts
That you were here today♥
We love you always
Chloe & Rian
xxxx
♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥
When you walk through a storm
Hold your head up high
And don't be afraid of the dark.
At the end of the storm
There's a golden sky
And the sweet silver song of a lark.
Walk on through the wind
Walk on through the rain
Though your dreams be tossed and blown
Walk on, walk on
With hope in your heart
And you'll never walk alone
♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥
Something else that was very close to Stevens heart was his beloved team Celtic. Him and his good
friend Rab often went to games together and he always came back with some momento or another which
he often sent up for his papa who is also an avid celtic fan.
I promise steven rian will be at his first celtic game at Parkhead soon xxxxx
The last game Steven went to was the UEFA Champions league game in November 2007 against Shakhtar
Donetsk. He went to that game with his nephew Stewart and he was over the moon that he got to spend
that quality time with his nephew especially at Paradise and especially that Celtic won 2-1 that
night.
Well steven you have the scarf from that night with you, hope its keeping you warm in these cold
nights and may it always be a reminder to you that "Youll never walk alone"
Although I’m gone it’s not goodbye
So try to smile and don’t you cry
I’ve found my heaven in the skies
I’m a Celtic fan in paradise
With golden skies and fields of green
A heaven that’s beyond your dreams
Where Celtic fans can call their own
A place you’ll never walk alone
Everyday I meet new friends
In my paradise that never ends
Where smiling faces beam with pride
In our colours side by side
So live your life and please don’t dwell
And be at peace I’m safe and well
In fields of green and golden skies
I wait for you in paradise
♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~
I WOULD JUST LIKE TO THANK EVERYONE WHO TAKES THE TIME TO LIGHT STEVENS CANDLES AND LEAVE
TRIBUTES..
HELLO STEVEN.
HI STEVEN ITS MARK HERE TO SAY I HOPE YOUR IN A BETTER PLACE MATE AND I HOPE YOU MEET MY BROTHER PAUL MAILLEY.I REMEMBER YOU WERE A GOOD SKATE BOARDER WHEN WE WERE YOUNGER STEVEN.YOU WERE A GOOD GUY STEVEN AND IT,S SO SAD THAT ALL THE GOOD PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD HAVE TO GO SO YOUNG.GOD BLESS MATE.TIOCHFAID AR LAxxx
Steven just to say i miss you so much. and im sorry i dont come up but i just cant... i hope you understand that.. it doesnt mean i dont think about you every day because i do and it doesnt mean i dont care either, its just so hard being there... and its hard for the kids too... we just assume they take it all in their stride but they dont.. they miss you so much steven.. you were always there for them no matter what... and to be honest im struggling on my own.... i just feel as though ive done nothing but let them down time after time... i cant give them what you did, no matter how hard i try.. they were up in your mum and dads for your dads birthday which was good for them... they still need that connection to you steven... because i always want you to be a big part of their lives and i know you always will be.........
love you always
valerie xxxx
miss you so much steven xx
God knows how much I miss you,
Never shall your memory fade,
Loving thoughts shall ever wander,
To the spot where you are laid.
Though absent you are ever near,
Still missed and loved, always dear.
Reflection
Another day for you to wonder, another day for you to mourn
It wasn't my intention to go before the coming dawn
My pain was deep within my heart and my troubled head
wasn't my intention to go without words said.
My frame of mind seemed normal, or so I heard them say
It wasn't my intention not to see another day
I did not mean to make you suffer or cause you hurt and pain
It wasn't my intention to never see you again.
Despair and confusion left my aching heart unsure
It wasn't my intention to suddenly close life's door
If only I could give you reasons and brush the tears away
It wasnt my intention to leave and not to stay.
I did not mean for you to grieve now left alone to cry
It wasn't my intention to leave you ,forever asking why
As the burdens of life's worries slowly ebb from my heart
It wasn't my intention to tear your soul apart.
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Somewhere beyond the sunset,
where happiness never dies,
you live in a beautiful garden,
above the clear blue skies,
although we cannot see you,
you’re with us every day,
and all the love we have for you,
will never fade away.
* •.♥.•** •.♥.•** •.♥.•** •.♥.•*
LOVE ALWAYS,Anne .xxx
* •.♥.•** •.♥.•** •.♥.•** •.♥.•*
ALWAYS IN MIND
⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰
Time has stood still for those who love you,
the grief is still fresh, their hearts are still blue.
Memories can ease pain but they never can fill,
the space that is left when they think of you still.
So stay near to those who miss you each day,
for they carry a sadness since you went away.
Send the strength to cope where others have tried,
and some love for their hearts that hurt deep inside.
⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰
All My Love Anne xxx
Death is just another step
Along life’s changing way,
No more than just a gateway
To a new and better day.
And parting from our loved ones
Is much easier to bear,
When we know that they are waiting
For us to join them there.
So death is just a natural thing
Like the closing of a door,
As we start upon a journey
To a new and distant shore.
And none need make this journey
Undirected or alone,
For God promised us safe passage
To this vast and great unknown.
So let your grief be softened,
And yield not to despair,
You have only placed your loved one
In the loving Father’s care.
~ Helen Steiner Rice ~
~ A Beautiful Butterfly ~
A beautiful butterfly
flew by me today
it circled around me
then went on its way
In a minute or two
It came back again
And fluttered on by me
As I strolled down the lane.
I sat down on a log
To take a short rest
The butterflies wings
brushed past my chest
It's touch was so gentle
Then off it flew
That beautiful butterfly
Reminded me of you.
Copyright© Ingrid Aspey 22/8/09
Right now I'm in a different place
And though we seem apart
I'm closer than I ever was
... I'm there inside your heart
I'm with you when you greet each day
And while the sun shines bright
I'm there to share the sunsets, too
... I'm with you every night
I'm with you when the times are good
To share a laugh or two,
And if a tear should start to fall
... I'll still be there for you
And when that day arrives
That we no longer are apart,
I'll smile and hold you close to me
... Forever
steven im so sorry, i know your watching over just now screaming at me to get my act together, for chloe and rian... im trying so hard.... they alone should be all the reasons i need to carry on... but i miss you... more than i bet you ever imagined i would... ive made some blunders along the way steven.. im not going to even try denying it.. i couldnt possibly even if i wanted to.... everyone including myself can see whats going wrong i just cant do anything to stop it... that might sound pathetic but its the truth... i dont want help, i just want you to come home............. and when i realised no amount of help in the world is going to make that happen well then wats the point.... i love chloe and rian so much steven but im more harm than good to them just now, its like the self destruct button has been pressed and now ive got to sit back and slowly watch everything fall apart and not be able to do anything about it........i wish so much you were here....... or i was with you............. ive messed up xxxxxx
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